THE BLACKMAILER

This is a story of a Vitnamee lady. Called HAI. Well educated, professional, belonging to well to do family, but in regard of love and marriage, she fail to get Mr. Right. She married with a person who have no interest in work. She told me - first night of her marriage, her husband come in room, jumped on her, and slept. She wept whole night.

She met me online at starting of March of this year. And fell in love with me in some days. At starting I was hesitating. But I thought, may be she is missing something in real life and looking on net. And if my friendship relaxed her a little nothing harm to me. So I accepted her friendship and fixed time for six month for best understanding to each other. For me her love was first sight love and love of a innocent lady; I confirmed she would step back. So I fixed time of six months for final decision.Anyway, after listening her voice, I felt mad. She has very very musical sound box. I fell in love with her, and every going day I was loosing my presence of mind, she too.

A event took place on 7th April. She was in office on late hour, I surprised and asked to her. She spoke lie to me 4 times and I totally confused about her. And She signed out suddenly.This was unexpected behavior of her. To know the truth of I tried to contact her by phone. After some efforts, she replied in uncertain and harsh tone. Then at night I sent her a SMS. My I God! I received valgur SMS from her side, I disturbed mentally. I guessed she is facing a trouble, but I could not know. There is only one way to wait the sunrise and her office time.At mornig she sent me SMS, “I have not any SMS sent you at night. Pls. come online at the the earliest, I am in need of your help.”She wrote her story, in a mail for best understanding about her past, and requested for help, advise, and moral support. What she wortes me-

I am very sorry, i must tell you my true story here.This is a long story that i hide you till now.Last night not me sent SMS for you, that is a man before i have been loved. He followed me from office to house and took my cell phone and kept it till this morning. He asked me who is it, I said the new lover of me. He became a crazy man and stick me badly. Today my face and head swallow. He locked me and kept me all the night in my house. I very shy to tell you this story. In this part of my past i do not want to tell you.Let me remmeber, I met him 9 years ago. He was a poor driver for my old company. He was married and has a daughter 6 years old. He is clever, humor but not high education. He seemed like me, always joked with me and said funny so i felt not sad. But because he was maried and not hansome man, so I not care to him. And once day his car hited a person driving bicycle and she died. He was poor, and help him small of money to pay for trial. From that time he more and more attetion to me and knew my marridge unhappy. Once day we had party I drank and came in his arm. After that we met together sometime when i felt sad, then after 5 months relationship I shy with her wife, and i explained for him I was not control myself and forget me. But he more and more loved me. He called to my house number if i not pick up the cell phone. He followed me everywhere even I went with my hausband. He passed around to my house in the weekend, if i was at home. He made me think i was very important with him. He said he and his wife was separete So i still continue met him and hope… Once day in 2005 because he lived nearby my hausband house I discovery he had a second daughter. And 1 year so I talk and want to say good bye with him. But he still follow me. I changed my number, he found out and called all the time, said love me and can not live without me and forgiv for him because his w ife cheating him to have a second baby. My phone full of his SMS , last my hausband found out and all his family sacked me out of his house. I left this house from my daughter 2,5 year old only.I want tell you more about my marridge life. I married from 1995, he is rude person, andwant to save face man. He not rich but always want be boss. He worked sometime and took a row with boss then stop. He is at home, unemployee i must take care all house, and as he is oldest brother so my responsibilty wa too haevy. We lived with his parents, brother not married. His prents always took a row long time. I felt stuffy. I felt tired and broing. But i still encourage to gave my hausband money to learn to get B/S because he just graduted colledge. But you know when he felt annoy he agreed with me and always jenlious with every man i knew. He cried and want to sack me out house many many time. Sometime her parent help me to cry him about his mentol crisis. But when they knew my relationship with my boyfrienf through SMS. They immediately sack me out house and keep everything property. I left his house with my hands and a motobike. That time in autum 2005. As my daughter was so small so no way i must submit paper for divorced, because he doesn nt want sign paper. He want me die and nothing get. He said if i far from him I only become whore.The man was married let me alone and some time came to my house help me something. I know he still love me because may be no one acted well with him. I teached him English. I encourage for him confident, and found another good job for him. Now his salary is better, not difficult in his life. I help his sister good job. His parent respect to me. His wife also find my numer phone and called and cried on the phone to tell bad about him. But i only said he still belong to him. I never pull her hausband to me. I respect to his family life. I gave her advance how to keep and take care him.Now he think nobody dare to love me trustly. And i said not permit him devorced with his wife. So he said ok he still belong to me and do not want someone touch me and married me. He is selfish and cupidity. I undestand only leaving him very far it is best for me. He will bother me anymore. But i busy with kids so the time passed and i not decide for myself. You know i m 40years old and shy to tell with my friend and parent about this story. My mistake is not clear cut with him. I am in hopeless and you go…Now you can comment, many thing i can not tell you now. Step by step. I must decide soon about him. But not hurry because now he is crazy, not control himself. Last night he saked me choose him or you, i said not him. And today i will meet him also with his sister. I must pay for my mistakes. No one can help me. You also. You can continue with me ot stop i have no right to claim you.”Thanks for undestanding me. Awaiting you online
And she talked with me in chat room what happened at night. When he knew, I am her new lover, He locked her up, tortured her whole night, and raped. Her face was swollen and body is aching, she could not set. She could not show her face to anyone at this time. I promised her I would give you my best company , and advises.
In coming day, this story leads me in worse, I had started to loose my business, money, health, peace of mind to care her. I tried my best live in touch with her, by net and by phone; everydays everyminutes.
Anyway story took a another chage on 3rd May, she wrote me :
Dear Neer,I am very sorry not reply your sms and delay replying. Actually I do not know where i can start to tell you. How I respect to you and like you. since over 1 month you was covering my hearts totally till now. If you here I sure I would forget all thing to come your arm to cry, smile and live with you the rest my life. Now I am thinking to you and cry. I cried each time chating and sharing with you every day. You are very man I want, so soft so kind so generous you are. I not derseve with your love. I am a merciless and bad lady. I said the word love with you but I can not wait you. I live without will and not ideal for a person like you.Till now no any change my setiment for you, I sure. If you think I only want flirt you and run out. Pls forget me immediately. I force denying my love only for great distant and poor of both. Neer I do not want you have to give up your aim because of me and I have to live in practilce, not dream more.I also want to tell you that I consutant to all my friends and family and they have a same advice no need stop loving you if I want but you never come here because you have no any money and even you can come, I will can not help you in fanancial here. That is true and I must bilive in sad true. You know pass 2 days I lived with my parent and I was sick, I cried and missed you a lot. But I have to respect to your aim, decision and their advances. No other way for me.Neer, I am consedering I can back ex boyfriend. Last Suturday he came to my hometown to pick up me and talk with my parent, he said sorry and will stand with me the rest life. He said he signed papers for devorcing and even denied his kids for his wife and want marry me. He cried and told to my family in true words.Frankly I do not want marry anybody more. I want live in peace and for my kids. But with his petition, I will consider and reply him soon even I know I not love him anymore. But i think his family brokebn down that is part of my fault so may be I must share loss with him, anyhow he was loving me and I not dare to finish this relationship sooner. And I know if I back with him, my dream must be finish here. I must foget you as I can not wait you in hopeless and timeless. I am so sorry my Neer. I came to your life, roused your soul and abandon you. Finally I only want say I love you forever. If you permit me I will your net friend the rest of life. If you need something and I can do for you I will try my best. If you want forget me I will never bother you more. But I hope you can forgive for my inocent and I wish your target will be success soonest. Let me finish here, hope you undestand and forgive me. I expect to read your letters if you can spend time for me.Take care!
Warm heart regards,
Hai

Finally we separated on 4thJune. We tried to save our relations as net friends, but failed. Then he started to touture me. He started to send me valgur mail, offline messages, and SMS. Some time I replied some time ignored. Last days he sent me some pictures.
The question is why he sent me her pictures.

To know the answer of, why, I posted a question on Yahoo. “What you think about a person who sent pictures of her girl friend to ex-boyfriend of her?”

What I got reply from Yahoo users.

They said, He is blackmailing to his girlfriend to dominate her!